Try To Treat Him Once A Day, (The Fascinating Way)

WARNING! Not for stressed out or frazzled women!
(or women who have just had a baby, and other high-stress situations that also result in the aforementioned category)

Dear Friends,

If you have been following the Surrendered Wife and exercising your Self Care regularly, you should theoretically be a super-relaxed and floaty chic... therefore well done!

If - and only if - this is this case, let's try and see if you can take this one further by treating your hubby to some TLC in the evenings. Now don't get me wrong, I'm not talking about under-the-covers stuff here, but more specifically:

• give him a warm-oil head massage
• fix up the foot-spa for him
• give him a foot massage with luxury foot cream
• give him a shoulder rub
• fix him a late night snack of his favorite kind
• or just simply walk into the room and ask "is there anything I can get for you, honey?"

Try to make 9-10 pm TLC Time for The Man, and see if it doesn't make him fall in love with you all over again! Marriage is all about giving the best of yourself to your other half, after all. If you cant do it daily, how about weekly? Monthly? Yearly? Try to start somewhere, the least you can do is put on your list of "Things To Do Before I Die" ;)

If these suggestions make you cringe, then ask yourself if your not behind on your own self care? If your too shattered by that time in the evening, (once the kids are asleep) - ask yourself if your getting enough rest during the day - if your doing too much? Is it really worth being so tired that you can't be the relaxed memsahib that can lavish TLC gifts on her husband?

No throwing tomatoes at me please, if you don't like this post, just block it out! It ever happened, you never read it.