Dr Laura: When Travelling Through Troubled Waters,

Once in a Dr Laura show, this couple phoned up. They had been married since they were both 18 and they had two kids. They had been married for 6 years, and their problem was that they wanted to split up. The reason? She had cheated on him..... with a guy from work.

When DrL asked why, she said that he didn't spend any time with her, spent a lot of time on the computer and watched porn. She was very upset.
DrL pointed out that he only had a relationship with pictures, and that she went out and had a relationship with a real life man!

Anyway. She recommended they read The Proper Care and Feeding of Marriage chapter by chapter and discuss it together.

She told them both that they they were walking over a bridge under which were running seriously troubled waters. She told them that all the waves want you to fall off that bridge, but all you have to do... allllll you have to do is to get over that bridge.