Expressing Desires - Bringing Up the Things that Annoy You

Surrendered Wife Mentoring by Sarah Warmly, SoftlyWarmly@hotmail.com

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From: SarahWarmly

My sugestion is that, because it annoys you, you do not bring it up 'in the moment' so to speak......because if you do that the annoyance in you will transfer in your voice or manner and he will likely get defensive and you will likely have a row !!

I would think of a way to bring up the topic for discussion in a lo-key atmosphere when you 2 are loving and he is feeling peaceful and you are very together and you stay in touch with him throughout, like holding his hand.... the minute you spring apart into separation you know you blew it......

Let us know how it goes....

Sarah